Find what you're looking for

Look for meanness and you'll find it. Look for beauty and you'll find that too. What do you look for in your fiance or spouse? Look for flaws and you'll find plenty to criticize. I'm not encouraging blindness or wearing rose colored glasses, but remember the power of our minds to see what we want to see... if we look for what is lovable, we'll find plenty is there to find! Keep this in mind not only as you plan your wedding but in the years to come.